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PART VIII - Sensitivity

Written by chImp at 02 Sep 2004 21:08:28:

As an answer to: My Full And Honest Experience With Phimosis written by chImp at 02 Sep 2004 20:13:18:

PART VIII - Sensitivity

So, what now?

First of all, my glans was EXTREMELY sensitive way beyond
what is needed for a normal person.

I still masturbated face-down, rubbing my penis with
a thin piece of clothing, while the glans was fully covered with
the foreskin.

After a while, this became problematic, because now when I got
an erection, part of the glans was exposed and touching it with
ANYTHING led to excruciating pain.

Imagine this: I lay down, tuck my penis inside a thin T-shirt
and start reading a porno mag. The erection grows. As long I
lay still, nothing happenes. But when I start gently rubbing it
using the T-shirt, at some point the glans gets exposed, leading
to pain and immidiate loss of erection.

And I could still not masturbate the normal way, which looks
to me today as the very definition of a normal, unphimosed, person.

However, the glans slowly adopted to the new deal, and I even
started worrying - was I losing the hard-gained sensitivity for
which I fought so long and so hard? The answer is definitely, unequivocally,
NO. To this very day I am more sensitive than a person who has never had phimosis. In fact, I was forced to LOWER my sensitivity, otherwise I momentarily lost the erection when I attempted having sex with my girlfriend.

I was still worried about me masturbating the wrong way. So I tricked my
penis to become adjusted to the normal masturbating style by
reaching the pre-orgasm state the old way, and then finishing off the
new way, the right way.

2004, January 1st. I actually managed to successfully masturbate using
only hands - from the beginning till the end! The way most normal people do it! Since then it was the desired way for me!

2004, April. I get my first girlfriend.

2004, May. I persuade her to start using birth control pills.
I am very insecure about sex, and certainly about using
condoms. I tried to masturbate with a condom on once, but
failed. It is very unpleasant when the condom touches
the glans! Plus I thought (again, wrongly), that wearing
condoms during sex not only DIMINISHES sensitivity for
the duration of the sex act, but does so forever. And if I
started to have sex with a condom on, how would I know what it
would feel like to have sex the first time WITHOUT a condom?
I'd have nothing to compare it to. My FIRST time DEFINITELY
HAD to be WITHOUT any condom.

2004, End of May. I make a first attempt to have sex. I fail.
The thing is: I get aroused, then I try to insert the penis
into the vagina. At this point the glans makes contact with the
skin right outside of the vagina, and I automatically lose the
erection.

I understood that my worries about sensitivity were unjustified:
I had a long way to go before I'd have the same sensitivity
level as the other guys! I'm a lucky bastard who had so much
sensitivity I even had to desensitise myself!

As my girlfriend told me, most guys liked the girl touching their
privates. I didn't: the contact of the glans and fingers meant physical
pain.

Anyway, my ingenuity saved me once again, besides, like history
teaches us, it takes no brain desensiting yourself, it's the opposite
that is difficult if at all possible.

I took that same thin T-shist, which I for a couple of years had used
as a masturbating tool alongside with pyjamas.
Now I wrapped it around my penis and SLOWLY started to retract the foreskin,
exposing the glans. The most painful area of the glans was the opening
from the urine comes out ("urethra").

The thing is that once you retract the foreskin, it's painful and unpleasant,
but there's really not anything you can do! You can't simply remove
the T-shirt, because that would lead to even more pain, and I knew it!

I started slowly to shake my penis. The T-shirt was rubbing it and it was
painful. However, I shook it for an hour or so, and it slowly went from
painful to merely unpleasant, to neutral and finally to pleasuring,
giving me a great orgasm!

After that I also rubbed the exposed glans against the outer of my
girlfriend's pussy for an hour or so.

After that it (temporarily) became more difficult for me to masturbate. Remember, at this time I only used the correct way. For several days it took me
up to an hour to get an orgasm by means of masturbation (at this point,
me and my girlfriend were in different countries, and we still haven't
had successful sex).

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