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Re: stretching secondary ring



Written by Robin at 16 Feb 2005 19:23:41:

As an answer to: treatment - phimosis written by RS at 11 Jan 2005 17:11:36:

Hi,

I now get time to answer your amusing letter
"The Trials and Tribulations of a Stretcher"

Very interesting for me is the description of how the white ring turned red, - Ive heard this before, but never had an explanation why.

Youve obviously got a secondary ring, and are set to do a life long battle against it - I wonder if such heroism is awaited in the modern world - Perserverance is certainly a good quality, but in the face of the mongolian hoardes little Peter with his sword dont stand much chance. -- I think Id go for a partial circ. - or someone was suggesting a pediatric urologist would do minimal plastic surgery on just the ring area. As youre in the UK I know Dr. Cuckow in London does plastic surgery. (costs about 2000 quid I imagine these days).
Still, dont let me silence your battle cries, if you want further info. call back here

thanks and all the best
Robin


>English Male, 36 yrs old,, obviously un-cut,,
>I really don't know how the necrotic process began,,, but
>intimacy issues arose literally between my wife and I
>flexibility was starting to decrease, bringing first of all
>discomfort and then pain,, the pain I fear to say would
>over-ride the pleasure of intimacy, so ED arose only when
>the head was fully exposed,, otherwise excessive
>lubrication had to be used as not to force the skin to
>retract,, this theory did work short term for me but not
>for my wife who would complain about excessive 'moisture',
>thus, this treated the symptom not the cause...
>Being an Engineer,,, like all mechanical function,, the
>idea of inserting
>cylindrical object to stretch it out,,, this I did for what
>must seem to be at least half a year,, but it only gave
>short term stretch/relief but the continual pain/itching
>did not make me a social/sexual creature, plus
>the continual adjustment did make me look like I was
>infected,, according to my wife I would 'adjust'
>automatically without thinking where I was,, so onto the
>next step
>At its worst, I paid a visit to a Urologist early February
>2003 where constriction was about 3/4 Diameter, with
>excessive pain to retract, I had the dreaded hour glass
>silhouette.
>I asked about d-slit, cream or some new procedure, being
>cut wasn't preferred but an option he wanted,
>at the time I had a rash so he prescribed a steroid cream
>0.25 percent which cleaned up the rash (this will become
>apparent later) So being cut wasn't what I wanted to hear
>so I decided to do some internet search, hence your
>website.... thanks
>So, the theory of a more aggressive stretching came to
>mind,, now for the last 6 weeks,, every time I use the
>bathroom I do some therapy,,
>started out with being able to insert 2 index finger tips
>and manipulate the 'ring"... (when you see stars or your
>legs get weak, its time to release) over time the diameter
>started to stretch,,, this was more apparent the more
>aggressive I got,, the pain I felt I would prefer to be
>highly intense for a few minutes each hour rather than
>continual aggravation of the previous method. I used a
>star pattern (pull and release and then re-clock the
>fingers about 60 degrees and start again) ,,, during the
>course of the day and assumed 5 Mins. x 12 time a day,, at
>the end of the days routine the 'ring' would eventually be
>the same diameter of the un-effected skin..
>the medication would be applied prior to bed and then the
>process of stretching would begin again the next day..
>showing a little loss of the previous days gain,, that
>being expected,,, skin color changed too,, prior to
>stretching the ring was a whitish band,, but the continual
>stretching and breaking of the skin would turn a dark
>purple/dark red,,, now the skin tone looks normal and
>currently doing a more of a maintenance stretch and
>application of medication...nominally at 1.25 Diameter...
>:)))
>Hope this helps,, It may work for some
>xx
>



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