Nick has emphasised the dangers of "paraphimosis" and you have experienced them.
Could it be as a result of fear that your erections are painful and arent so hard now as before?
or could it be that everything is still a bit sore?
I would bet that when you have intercourse with this condition the paraphimosis is
sure to reccur - this depends on the lubrication and if partner is open or tight - but
it will always remain a danger.
It all depends now on your basic attitudes to life and sex. Either you need to do some homework
on stretching methods, (your method is not advisable or successful) -(stretching should start working in 10 days if its going to work) - (as this was the first trime you retracted , you will probably have a primary phimosis and this will stretch) - or you need a partial circumcision - (with probably a Jewish doctor - see first thread first answer on this forum)
At 26 years I imagine the whole chain of discoveries is a shock and a trauma, and I do
advise now approaching the whole thing in a cool calm manner, - this is your initiation -
confront the situation and use the experience to grow - Self education has a lot to do with our cultures self intitiation - please go to www.male-initiation.net/library/anatomy/stretching.html
and using the linked search engine on my site and doing a search for paraphimosis would be valuable for you - there are various references but I notice they are not centrally linked up - this will soon be corrected.
