As an answer to: frenuloplasty written by Robert at 04 May 2006 19:44:10:
Hello Robert,
thats a nice letter, I appreciate fully your experience, and your
feelings about the urologist.
As far as what happens in the operation, I presume you have read
www.male-initiation.net/frenulum_treatment.html
and maybe followed the link (very near end of page) to the medical
studies where the theory of Y plasty is explained
also there is a
www.male-initiation.net/frenulum_index.html
which I put online recently, (maybe since you wrote) - the index links
to Harmen's pictures of
the frenulum and its treatment ... 3 very excellant pics of a
frenuloplasty with 4 cuts - you will have to look to find them - but
thats exactly what you are looking for.
Im in contact with Harmen - he recently offered that I take over his
site ...
For a long time i have tried to do my site without pictures, in an
attempt to make the info available to youngsters - however there is
such a lot of useful education from pictures, that now I am collecting
pics of all the conditions - I already have several in store, but I have
nothing showing the effects of frenulum breve. Do you have a digital camera???
I need pictures ... Can you help?
There ARE quite a few reports after the frenulum operation, but they
are all quite simple and happy. In contrast to complaints about the circumcision
operation - I have NEVER ever heard one complaint about the frenulum
operation, (except from one man who had laser treatment).
So - I am also interested in you sharing your experience, my site was
built from men doing this - and Id be interested in pictures or anything
you wrote on the subject -
How old are you? I could guess 20 yrs. - humm yes yet another link
(all links are on the frenulum index)
www.male-initiation.net/frenulum_research.html
You see this is my concern, firstly, what are the sexual difficulties
you have experienced with frenulum breve (the doctors are not only
dumb when they advise circumcision, they truly are (most are) fully unaware that
the frenulum has any sexual effects!! - this subject has been tabood for
centuries). I feel firstly the medical profession must become aware of
this, and then they may want to check for the problem before puberty,
this would be a wise step, and then the problem could be treated
before puberty.
So then the second point, how can they check? they only
see a boys flaccid penis .. so this is the idea behind frenulum_research,
and the questionnaire, which I would ask you to please look at, fill in and comment on.
I have a friendly disagreement with Harmen whereby we both learn
something - let me interest you in this theme - his picture 4. shows
the frenulum bending the GLANS. I have a drawing of the frenulum
bending the erection, (drawn with my limited talents
from my old frenulum), on www.male-initiation.net/common_delusion.html
. My drawing shows the SHAFT bending.
I reckon that his glans bends, because his frenulum is attached by the
meatus (urinary opening), mine was attached to the base of the glans,
in the "frenular delta" . Now where is yours attached and how does
your erection bend??? ... (see the questionnaire it covers this point)
So, I have given you a lot to think about, a lot of links to check,
and things to read before your operation ... I think it is all
relevant to someone in your position with your attitude, ... so I hope
it isnt all work, and hope you enjoy it.
Also I hope to hear from you again, but if I have made a complete
balls up, asked too much, and you decide against it, then let me at least wish a successful
operation in April.
Cheers
Robin
>hi
> first off, thanks for the helpful site. im scheduled for a frenuloplasty for early April, and as is reasonable im quite nervous. what I have noticed is an almost complete lack of before and after pictures, and very few testimonials from people who have had the surgery. I am interested in sharing my experience with others so that maybe they can make a slightly more informed decision about the surgery.
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>when I went to my urologist with my problem the first thing he suggested was a circumcision, with the info I gathered from this site and others I was able to tell him that I wanted an frenuloplasty instead. im glad that I was able to do this but it scares me that he may be performing unnecessary surgeries on people who don't know better or choose based on too little information.
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>I still don't feel I have a full understanding of what is about to happen. I hope I do before the surgery, either way I would like to help others know what to expect from my experience.
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>I look forward to hearing from you
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>sincerely
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>Robert
