Human nature is unendingly flexible and vulnerable, we learn a general
basis for socially acceptable behaviour usually indirectly from parents
and environment, wishing to please and be accepted. This is often described
as the socialisation of raw human nature.
Pain and pleasure mould specific responses. The traumatic or repeated
experience of pain lays the basis for habitual and often compulsive
behavioural responses and this takes extreme forms when the development
is of a subconscious or semi-conscious nature since infancy.
It is also worth considering that the repeated experience of pain
is the basis for aversion therapy.
It would be helpful to understand unrecognised foreskin conditions
as inhibitions (see
dictionary definitions). This anatomical inhibition has emotional
consequences which are comparable with the classical inhibitions, they
make a persons behaviour less flexible less spontaneous, he becomes
less able to respond to life`s various situations, he adopts safe roles
even non-confrontative wishes and intentions.
The consequences of unacknowledged or avoided pain are far more
chaotic than any fully conscious repeated pain stimulus. In the same
way as any other disturbance which is not acknowledged, it is repressed,
sublimated and displaces.
The lack of confrontation inevitably generates
irrational consequences and as with any other irrational influence
or subconscious disturbance, after years of insinuation, this has very
real and fundamental effects on a man`s outlook on life, his behaviour,
emotions, psychology, and fantasy.
An interesting comparison can be drawn with the incest victim`s
lack of trust, spontaneity and limited sexual behaviour roles, often
with some history of believing or trying to believe that such child
parent relationships were normal (to live with and adapt to a chaotic
A person who represses their homosexuality is another significant
comparison, the effects commencing during puberty, becoming progressively
disturbing and disorientating as self deceptions and habits reinforce
each other. As years go by the consequences become increasingly chaotic
Genital pain and difficulties and the fear or avoidance of these
difficulties are very elementary influences, and over a period of years
the effects can permeate the entire personality, supporting and stimulating
compatible influences and fears, and undermining any healthy re-learning
A deviation from normal, uninhibited sexual behaviour starts developing
during masturbation. It is generally understood that the most normal
method of masturbating is by moving the foreskin backwards and forwards.
With these conditions a freely movable foreskin at the same time as
a full erection is impossible. Beauge discussed this in detail.
A boy with these conditions develops a sexual
behavioural relationship with himself which is determined by his anatomical
limitation. His behavioural patterns are reinforced frequently, in
fact every time he masturbates during this important development phase
throughout puberty. After a period of time he will develop patterns
of sexual enjoyment which however creative, seen anatomically they
are bound to be deviations from normal. His behaviour is truly conditioned.
The relationship with his own body (and imparticularly his "private
parts") influences the whole shape of a boys developing sexual imagination