husband's pain and male pride
I am writing to tell you of the pain my husband has. First
of all he is a very proud 39 year old Southern man who
refuses to go to the doctor on this subject so has chosen
to put us both through this horror!
About a year ago, while having sex; my husband experienced
a very sharp pain in his scrotum. It was so sharp it
brought tears to his eyes. He moved quickly and held
himself for a moment and then tried to continue but his
He says he has the pain often and we've only had sex a few
times since then. My prior statement may have seemed
selfish when I said he has chosen to put us both through
this horror, however it wasn't meant to sound selfish. To
me, it isn't about sex. We've always had a fabulous sex
life. Sex is a very strong and real part of both our lives.
But why it is a horror to me is that I love him! I can't
stand to see him in pain! I can't stand to see him let his
pride get in the way of his health. Women are subjected to
humiliating examinations all the time. Why is it that men
feel that they should be immune to this?
I hope this in some way can help you with your research. I
was surfing the web trying to find an answer to help him
myself and stumbled across your site.
You are a very brave and secure man to have been able to
create such a site.
I applaud you and wish you healing.