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Re: 40 yo, never retracted foreskin.

Written by Robin at 20 Jan 2001 14:52:11:

As an answer to: Re: 40 yo, never retracted foreskin. written by R J Knight at 18 Jan 2001 22:44:47:

I feel as though the practical questions have been answered

what interests me now is your awareness of fear:

>>It's the fear and apprehension of pulling me foreskin back and the fear of the pain that holds me back. The actual pain i can stand, but it's the fear that grips me.
>>That's what I'm trying to get over. I fear my fear is too deep rooted for me to fix my problem.
>>Your page gives me hope that I can sort this out, but I have to admit to being petrified.

I had a puberty experience of extreme pain from which was to some extent repressed, resulting in avoidance and inhibited behaviour patterns, I dont know if I could call it fear, but obviously my reaction was grounded in fear - I sensed fear in reality far more just before the operation, however that might have been because of unsympathetic doctors - anyway I`m digressing ..

It is perfectly feasable for a kid, even previous to puberty, to have painful or even traumatic experience caused by difficult foreskins, these could easily lay the foundation of any later anxiety ... it must be added (as is accepted) that such anxiety could also be caused by any number of environmental or parental influence ...

So the question is can you remember any early "conditioning" experience which might have led to your present petrification?

Robin

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