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Re: Fear of Glans Exposure

Written by Robin at 27 Jan 2001 16:48:17:

As an answer to: Fear of Glans Exposure written by UK Dude at 26 Jan 2001 20:39:41:

>I just CAN'T pull it back. I'm scared to, simple as that, blind fear turning into panic. My heart starts racing. So I can't even tell if it will go back, because I can't bring myself to try.
>I KNOW it's not natural the way it is, and I can't believe I'm so scared at what is only pain. I don't fear the pain, two bad car accidents saw to that, I can stand a lot of pain.

Sorry I cant remember your exact condition, something to do with the frenulum. Thereīs lots of different sorts of pain - this is nothing like a car accident or someone bopping your nose, this is more like putting your hand in fire, or touching a bare elctric wire, ... can I think of a better example? ... this has been happenning regularly for years, repeated stimulii cause different reactions to trauma

>I need to see a shrink rather than a urologist, I think!
>Can anyone help me with this fear?
>Thanks

dont be scared of it, dont make it a vicious circle, its a very interesting human phenomenon, lots of people have it in different ways, sounds similar to claustophobia and not being able to stand heights, very hard to be objective - which must be part of the phenomenon, - hummm - isnīt there something which claustrophobia etc, always "means" to the sufferer ... something it symbolises, bearing a resemblance, ---- something like this - take a guy who is not homosexual, but is scared that he might be - to avoid even looking at the possibility he invents a diversion, he uses a secondary symptom and gets hung up on that, .... shortly after he forgets the process and develops a vicious circle of fear about an unsolvable problem ...

hummm my potted attempts at psychology are without any guarantee ... I far more consider that years of repeated pain from a frenulum are stimulus for any amount of psychological abberations ...

Robin

PS. If you can stand the pain of car accidents then you can stand the pain of a newly exposed glans -


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