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Re: Sensitive glans....

Written by Paul B. at 25 Mar 2001 15:50:39:

As an answer to: Sensitive glans.... written by Guzo at 24 Mar 2001 20:30:13:

>a very common problem I think, The glans sensitivity....
>Well...My glans it quite much sensitive...
>I mean that when my gf touch it I feel rather pain than pleasure...

What is quite fascinating about this observation, is that it is
*exactly* what women feel about their clitoris (or so we are told!).
You will most likely know that if you attempt to touch your lady's
clitoris, she will say what you have just said, preferring to have it
indirectly stroked by rubbing around the lips, or by a *very well*
lubricated finger, or perhaps a very wet tongue.

The question is: Why then would you expect your glans to be different?
The answer is of course, that much that it publicised on this topic,
relates to the circumcised condition as it emanates from America
where this fad has been endemic over the last century.

I think then, that you are really quite "normal", and need to explain
to your girlfriend (who may perhaps, have experience of circumcised
men,) that lo and behold!, she may actually need to treat you with the
same discretion she would expect applied to herself.

Two other observations - I doubt you are a stranger to masturbation,
presumably executing this with your foreskin over your glans. I also
anticipate that your glans sensitivity is/ would not be a problem
within the well-lubricated confines of her vagina. (;-) Other forms of
pleasuring must needs be made to emulate one or the other of these
situations. Also, what is excessive stimulation to start with is often
quite desirable as you move toward orgasm (for both men and women).


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