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Erection problem...HELP

Written by Guzo at 01 Apr 2001 18:37:31:

well well...
more problems..
and now..more serious!
The problem is called erection!
I need to be more specific that's why I have to give you details and some notes...

I am 22 with normal to low sexual life....

So...
I get erected ONLY when my gf touches the pennis...
I can't get erected when I am thinking something (sexual) ... so EVEN if I see pamela anderson ahead of me then it's still flacid!!!!! :)))
So my gf has to touch it or maybe oral sex to get me erected...

The problem is that it's not so easy to do it..and so after a few minutes of stimulation I get erected..
BUT it doesn't last for too long...I mean that after a few mins again it gets flacid...
Even if we start having sex .... then it's possible that it gets flacid inside her...!

At the past I thought I have a problem but then why when I am masturbating (not so often!) I have an erection for many minutes and everything is ok??

An other point is that I get erected more easily with my own touch rather than my gf's touch..
I mean that it's not nessecary for me that oral sex stimulates me more than my hand.... (interesting!)

So?

What I THINK is that the problem is on my mind!! right??

but after all it's not a button which you press it and you say ... NOW I MUST BE ERECTED!
I am not a robot! so I can't command my body!

I know that your advices should be very simple such as : DON'T THINK ABOUT IT!
and that's true!but not so easy!

is there another trick?
A friend of mine who works on a pharmacy told me to bring me royal jelly !!!!! ;)))))
I have no problem to take anything that would help! (not VIAGRA! lol)

after all it's not necessary that I could take something for my penis but for my mind...So if I want to be ok do u think that I would take a calm pill or a stimulatory pill?


I have to tell you that I am not an expert to control my mind!


sorry for bothering but I guess that you understand my state!
thanks a lot

P.S . I think that if I go to a doc. then I will convince my problem that I have problem and maybe it will get worse!


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