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Written by Guzo at 03 Apr 2001 13:29:48: Re: Erection problem
As an answer to: Re: Erection problem written by Paul B. at 02 Apr 2001 23:22:13:
>> I can't get erected after just thinking something hot!! I need
>> someone (women only!) to touch it! isn't that a problem?
>It's certainly odd, but only a problem insofar as it stops you doing
>something. Young chaps are sometimes troubled by erections which are
>too easy to start, so in that sense, it might be a good thing. However
>your difficulty in keeping the erection to have intercourse does
>appear to be a major problem.I must say..that this period of life could be the worst...psycholigicaly...due to maaaany reasons...
>> of course but couldn't some things make me feel more hot?
>> royal jelly?
>But you are *not* a honeybee, and what it does for honeybees has no
>real connection with feeling randy in the first place. No-one would
>have any reason to suggest it would - unless in point of fact, they
>wanted to make a fanciful story to sell a product. It's commonly
>referred to as "snake oil" (or in Australia, "goanna oil").
>Making someone feel or act better by giving them something that has no
>actual effect is referred to as a "placebo". It sometimes does work
>of course, which suggests that their problem was going to improve
>sooner or later anyway.of course you are right...but aren't some products that improve the sexual desire?not medicals but physical!
>So you either get some Viagra from the doctor when you have the blood
>test, or you consider the other half of my previous suggestions
>regarding anxieties in the relationship and the possibility of
>depression, and perhaps see a doctor with some psychiatric competence.
>You might also care to explain how long you have had this current
>problem, and whether you have had previous successful relationships
>(in the sense of intercourse) and what in general you have done,
>sexually, in the past ten years.
well....I read the site : http://thriveonline.oxygen.com/sex/malesex/malesex.intro.htmland especially :
http://thriveonline.oxygen.com/sex/malesex/malesex.erection3.htmlI read the paragraph:
If any of the following items are true of you, you should see a urologist:
You never or rarely have erections while asleep or upon awakening. When I say erections in this discussion, I mean of reasonable or satisfactory quality -- that is, sufficient for vaginal insertion and intercourse. This does not mean that your penis has to be as hard as a rock.
You never or rarely have erections in masturbation.
You never or rarely can maintain an erection until ejaculation.
You have a consistent pattern of your penis getting hard only a short time before ejaculation.
You have already failed to improve the quality or quantity of your erections in a sex-therapy or self-help program.
If any of the following are true, you probably don't need a urologist:You often have erections while asleep and on awakening.
ou usually get erections with masturbation and maintain them for a comfortable time before ejaculation. If you have erections on awakening or with masturbation, but not with a partner, that almost certainly means that something about you and the partner needs work. It would be a strange physical condition that manifested itself only in the presence of another person.
You have and maintain good erections in certain situations but not others -- say, with one partner but not with another, or when you're on vacation but not at home.so everything keeps me out of urologist
I guess that the reasons are psycho!
thanks