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Re: Normal, but

Written by Steve (UK) at 21 Apr 2001 11:08:17:

As an answer to: Normal, but written by Paul B. at 20 Apr 2001 23:25:28:

> Do this when you shower and let the water run over it, first as it runs
>off your body, then a little from the direct shower spray.
> Also pull it back whenever you pee. No touching required, just while
>you pee.

Started already. trouble is, It's a family trait to want it now, not gradually. Just got to have a bit of patience and not expect an overnight cure.

>> If I walk around (naked) like this next time I'm alone in the house
>> for about 20 minutes a time do you think that will help?
> Great idea.
>> If anyone sees me I'll probably get arrested, though.
> What sort of house? C'mon. Why would someone see you?

Sorry, I was attempting humour! I live in a rural area so no-one will see me. Another family trait, if there's pain involved, try and laugh!
> If your foreskin does in fact retract quite readily, I'd be rather surprised
>if it didn't do so as you have intercourse. To expand on what I remarked
>before, although it's not the only way it can work, it would seem that
>the purpose of the foreskin is to cover the penis and keep it moist,
>retaining the "pre-cum" until you actually penetrate your good lady at
>which point it is pushed back.
> Conversely, it can be pulled back over as you pull out, possibly again and
>again with each stroke. Having this happen is a highly desirable mode as it
>conserves lubrication in the vagina and under the foreskin making
>intercourse more comfortable (as it is not uncommon for ladies to lose the
>thread and produce less lubrication) than otherwise.
> This is referenced as the "gliding mechanism". I very much wonder
>whether you are actually experiencing this without realising it. Though
>you count your glans extremely sensitive to touch, you should know your
>wife's clitoris is no different, but in both cases, sexual excitement and
>generous lubrication allows direct stimulation to be appreciated.
> It's something you should investigate in conjunction with your wife (as of
>course you should always involve her). If you had not realised such
>exposure was already occurring, it would be a salutory lesson that you
>were doing things fine already. If you truly have not been retracting
>during intercourse, then to retract (by pulling the skin back from the
>base) whilst inside her and well lubricated should be a delightful
>exercise. And variations thereof.

I have developed this 'technique' of pulling my foreskin forward before entry, and kind of pushing it sideways (difficult to explain!) in the expectation that my glans won't be exposed inside the vagina. I suspect this almost certainly doesn't work, though!

> Please do tell how all these points work out.

I will, and thanks.


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