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Written by Paul B. at 10 Jul 2001 22:54:54: Re: sensitive glans
As an answer to: sensitive glans written by Nikos at 10 Jul 2001 12:36:40:
> when I am erect it hangs one inch over the glans.
Skite!
> If I retract it (which takes a couple of minutes)
Why?
> it forms a tight ring around the shaft just under the head. Very uncomfortable.
See my post immediately below: "Re: Fraenulum breve questions" regarding the need to stretch this.
> My biggest problem is that the glans (head) of my penis is so sensitive that I cant touch it.
> HURTS way too much.This complaint is (or rather, these two common complaints are) well dealt with on this page. In particular,
I suggest you read this and many of the other postings about "sensitive" that I have made.> I cant have sex and this is very embarrassing.
I suspect you need to learn a number of things about having sex. If you propose intercourse with a
young lady, then the important points are that she be properly "wet" first, then you may enter her and
pull back your foreskin in that order. If you cannot arrange for her to be wet first, then you can use
some artificial lubricant - which you will need to put inside her!> How can I make the head normal so I can rub it and grab it without pain ???
Your request is itself a little odd. My posting explains that this is not a normal expectation for
the natural penis any more than it is for a woman's clitoris, but rather a peculiarity of the circumcised
penis that has become the American norm. If you want to do that by way of masturbation, then you need to
use a lubricant (which will indeed allow you to progressively become more accustomed to direct rubbing.I am sure you are already quite adept at masturbation with your foreskin over your glans - there is no
reason why you should not find intercourse most pleasurable the same way, though as I said, there is no
reason either why you should not be able with a partner who is actually ready for it, to enter her
and then unfurl your foreskin.