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Re: rusty

Written by Paul B. at 26 Aug 2001 23:47:15:

As an answer to: Re: rusty written by Frank L. at 26 Aug 2001 19:23:20:

> what about if i cant stretch it while i pee?

I was answering the question for later - what you do after you've stretched it satisfactorily.

> becuz everytime i do it sprays all over the place ... its impossible for me

Sure. If it's presently too tight to pull back fully, then it will obviously distort the pee jet and spray. You will know when you've got it properly stretched, by being able to pee with it retracted. In the meantime however, as far as you have time when you go to pee, and you will have some tendency, particularly as I mentioned in the mornings, to have an erection when you need to pee, then pull it back firmly for ten seconds or so (then release it) before you pee. That's still a way of having a "reminder" to do the stretching.

> second question is instead of doing all that stretching can't i just use masturbating as a method of stretching ...
> after all i only pull the foreskin down when i masturbate ... and i can see the head more

That's certainly what I am getting at. It's obviously easier and more effective to pull the foreskin back with an erection since when you're soft, there's very little to pull back against. I am merely pointing out that unless you masturbate an awful lot (;-) and make a point of holding it "on the stretch" as a major part of the practice (which incidentally, you could do to some extent), you will get results quicker if you make time for stretching as well as your masturbation times.

> than if i pulled it down w/o masturbating like in the shower

You imply you don't masturbate in the shower. Oh well ...

Incidentally, Jim usually mentions another point - when you don't have an erection, if you can manage to get both little finger tips inside the tight part of your foreskin and pull them apart, holding for a couple of minutes, a few times a day, that's a really good way of stretching it too.

> i was thinking of just using masturbating as a way of stretching

Hey, no problems. If you're in no hurry (and there's probably no reason why you really need to be), that will certainly help a lot.


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