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Foreplay time

Written by Paul B. at 22 Sep 2001 13:15:14:

As an answer to: Foreplay time written by Harry at 18 Sep 2001 17:54:11:

> What is the average time foreplay should last for 20 years old couple? I'm asking for minutes(cca).

Harry, you've not been answered, in part because this list is fairly quiet, but basically because you have truly, asked the wrong question.

You asked for "minutes". Any "minutes" answer is the wrong answer. The correct answer is "Whatever time it takes for the young lady to be ready for intercourse."

Then question which inevitably must follow from this is "When is the young lady ready for intercourse?", and the answer is "when she is fully focussed on receiving from, and giving to her partner, sexual pleasure." A few important points must be made here. Firstly, she must be literally, dripping wet from the vulva (because she will not be able to be comfortably entered otherwise, although one might "cheat" with artificial lubricant). This is the single most vital indication.

Secondly, she will at this time ask to be entered (or otherwise taken to orgasm), but not necessarily verbally.

Thirdly, foreplay does not cease at penetration, but the same acts need to continue throughout intercourse. Intercourse alone is rarely as exciting an act for the young lady as for the chap.

Fourthly, and consequent to the first three, it is possible to pursue foreplay alone, too long.


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