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Re: I need some advice, Please Help Me !

Written by Jim at 18 Dec 2001 08:19:19:

As an answer to: I need some advice, Please Help Me ! written by Arron at 18 Dec 2001 03:36:04:

>I am 17 years old and I have a problem in pulling my foreskin back. I seem to have to much foreskin, I only have a small hole at the top of my skin so I can only see just the very top of my head. I have tried sex and it has been very painful at times. I have known about this problem since I was 15 but I have been to scared to tell my mother.
>The problem is that when I have an erection, I can only see just a small part of the top of my head as the hole in my foreskin is not large enough to go around my entire head.
>The hole is not even a cm wide, so its very small but after sex and masterbation the hole seems to get larger but not that much.
>Please could you give me some advice, I would really apreciate it. Please try not to use the complicated terms, as I dont really know them. I would feel pretty embarrased going to a doctor but I think I could tell my mother. What should I do ?
>Thanks Alot.

You can rest a bit. There's no emergency here, so you can try something on your own first and not have to worry about mom or the doctor.

The little hole will stretch, given enough time with the proper technique. Skin tissue stretches most easily when it is warm, so try this when bathing or showering. Just take a hold on both sides of the hole and GENTLY pull in opposite directions, holding it for several minutes per day. If you can find a SMOOTH device just a bit larger than the opening, such that you can get the skin over this device, you could leave it in place all day long and get a lot more stretch time in. Perhaps, it might be the cap from a pen at this time. As the opening begins to cooperate, graduate to something a bit larger in order to keep tension on the opening.

Everytime you relieve yourself, pull back on the skin as far as it will go without pain.

Try these exercises faithfully every single day for the next two months. Do it gently so nothing hurts and you'll find success shortly. Within less than a week you'll see some results, but don't try to rush it. The key to this is not hurting yourself, but being diligent. As you stretch, little gaps will be created between the skin cells. In time, new cells will fill in the gaps, just like what happened as you grew from childhood. Your body knows exactly what to do, so just get it started. Let us know your progress along the way.


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