[ ARC forum 2 ]
Written by Jim at 19 Dec 2001 22:20:05: Re: I need some advice, Please Help Me !
As an answer to: Re: I need some advice, Please Help Me ! written by Arron at 19 Dec 2001 01:54:53:
>Jim, I just wanted to ask you that, how do you know that the foreskin can stretch that much ?
>Did you know this from experience ?
>I was reading the information on this website and for my problem they seem to recommend that men who only see a very small part of the head while the penis is erect should have the skin surgically removed (a full circumcision). If I can I really want to avoid this option as I have seen pictures of it and its doesnt look to pretty, infact it scared me more than anything.
>I have been stretching my foreskin like you said, I can see some progress as it is a larger hole than before but not alot. I dont mind stretching my skin for a couple of months, but I feel that maybe stretching will not solve my problem entirely, it may improve my situation but will the skin eventually go over the whole of my head ?
>Sorry about asking you so many questions , I just cant stop thinking about it.
>Was your situation as bad as mine ? Maybe you only needed to stretch your skin just a small amount to solve your problem, but with mine it seems I need to stretch it alot.
>Thanks alot.
>I would really appreciate it alot if you would answer my questions. I am more than willing to give the stretching method a go if I know that it will solve my problem.
>Thanks again.Paul has already answered your questions quite adequately. The one point he has made with a couple of illustrations is that stretching DOES work. Do you have fat people where you live? Think about how they got that way. The tissue in your foreskin is inherently "stretchy." You also have a lot less to stretch than those fat people did when they started. You know even large babies start at about ten pounds. The really big fat people weren't born at 400 to 500 pounds, were they? Skin expands by keeping tension on it. As the cells are kept separated, they are joined by new cells which fill in the gaps.
The key to this whole thing is getting started NOW. It does no good to sit and mull over decisions. Set your goal at success and take action. Action cures fear.
Yes, I know quite well from experience about stretching, as do thousands of other guys around the world. The critics of any successful venture will always criticize. When this happens, you simply keep your eye on the goal and don't look back. Many of those who gave up on their own goals would prefer not having someone else succeed at what they have failed. Don't let them bring you down to their level!
You can do it! Get started now, and remember, don't get too aggressive and cause yourself pain. Be gentle and persitant. Even turtles enjoy crossing the finish line (no pun intended).