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Re: I need some advice, Please Help Me !

Written by Jim at 21 Dec 2001 15:21:19:

As an answer to: I need some advice, Please Help Me ! written by Arron at 18 Dec 2001 03:36:04:

Arron, you certainly are old enough to do as you wish. However, I cannot just let this go without comment. You came her to seek out the best advice, and according to your own words, would like to avoid surgery. Paul and I gave you the best advice known around the world to solve a situation like yours. It works when it is employed. It doesn't work when ones fails to work the plan. Does that make sense? Failure occurs when the effort isn't equal to the demand.

Success in any venture demands that certain steps be taken. Those who shortcut the steps, while seemingly getting to the goal faster, ultimately fail, because they don't have the necessary foundation, or because they don't know how to handle any little obstacle which comes along. You can find the success with your present situation if you take the proper steps and put in whatever time is necessary to get the job done. From your description, it is highly doubtful that you have any genetic defects. Your situation is that you didn't start your stretching exercises soon enough in life so now you have to make up for that lost time. Taking a short cut as others have and as they now suggest will temporarily alliviate your situation, but it isn't your best solution. There is a price to pay. That price is full sexual enjoyment for a lifetime. The "equipment" you have now is all designed to work synergistically. Sure, you'll have function without some parts, but it won't be the same without all of them working in harmony. Do you really want to give up the best because you were too impatient to take the time to take care of yourself?

Your answer will tell a lot about you as an individual. I suspect you are still quite young. If you live your life by taking shortcuts in every endeavor, your results will be shortchanging you from what they could have been if you built your foundations strong. I'm dead serious about this. You can take it or leave it and it surely won't make any difference to any of the rest of us here, but it will to you. Your future is in your own hands, quite literally.


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