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Re: Need advice

Written by Jim at 04 Jan 2002 21:32:28:

As an answer to: Need advice written by Joe at 04 Jan 2002 14:33:23:

>Extremely painful sex. glans getting strangulated causing pain n discomfort. when ejaculate most of the fluid remians inside. i know i need to visit a doc but its uncomfortable to find the doc for such help. is their any option other than surgery that might help ? how could i approach the doc?

I can understand your fear in seeing a doctor. Many of them would advise very drastic and unecessary treatment for a situation that you can easily solve for yourself.

First of all, from your brief description, it sounds as if your frenar band is a bit snug. The frenar band is the bit of tissue that forms the ring at the end of the foreskin. This is not a life or death situation!

We're finding that the use of a simple device to hold open the little opening for several hours at a stretch will do wonders in getting the tissue to expand permanently. The device will depend upon the current size of the opening and your own ingenuity. Look around the house for anything which is sturdy enough, yet smooth and unbreakable, and of the suitable diameter. It could be something as simple as the little plastic bottle in which pills are dispensed at the pharmacy. You can cut the bottom off if you wish and make it possible to urinate through it. Simply roll the foreskin over the tube and tape the skin to the outside of the tube. Leave it in place as long as it is comfortable. During the first few hours, check to make sure there is no pressure being exerted upon any one place more than others, and be sure no blood supply is cut off. It would be advisable to remove it daily for cleaning also. As the tissue relaxes, it will create little voids between cells. With sufficient time, new cells will fill in the gaps.

It is really that simple. The principle is currently being used by plastic surgeons all around the world. Those are the guys who earn the really big bucks doing what they do, so they aren't a bunch of country bumpkins. Our own bodies also employ this simple method of expansion as we grow and as we gain weight. Think about a really obese person and how all that skin is able to contain all that fat. It expanded one cell after another.

You can do it, and furthermore, you can do it without a doctor's help or knowledge. One word of caution: Don't let anything hurt! Be gentle in your stretching and be patient.


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