[ ARC forum 2 ]
Written by Aussie girl at 26 Jul 2003 16:29:12: Re: Help for Admin.
As an answer to: Help for Admin. written by Robin at 25 Jul 2003 16:33:30:
Hi Robin, and welcome back to your board.
>"Again if I could find someone active who was TRULY UNBIASED I would happily give them the passwords .."
I feel it would be extremely dangerous to have a pro-circer moderate the board, because the only treatment recommended for tight foreskins would be circumcision, which would be a serious mistake the victim will regret for the rest of his life, particularly when he later finds out how simply the problem could've been solved without cutting off the most sensitive part of his body. If guys can stretch their foreskins by a few inches when restoring them, the guys with phimosis will have no trouble stretching the foreskin enough to comfortably slide back and forth over the glans.
>" the problem is trying to convince me that someone has no preferencial method of treatment ...."
The stretching treatment we recommend *always* works when followed correctly. Skin is designed to stretch, and a foreskin does that very well. We've had success with all the guys we've helped, and circumcision should never be considered for anything other than cancer, which is extremely rare, and usually only in old men.
Anyone who says stretching doesn't work, isn't doing it properly. This forum has been extremely valuable for allowing us to help the guys with their stretching. Apart from helping the guys in here and Fathermag, I've personally taught a 38 year old guy with phimosis, to sucessfully stretch his foreskin, and he was finally able to see his glans, and orgasm during sex for the first time in his life. I asked him if he'd come in here and tell the guys about it, but he saw all the disruptions from AJ ( before Chimp came into it) and didn't want anything to do with the nonsense, and now there are two of them disrupting everything. I'm really glad you're looking into moderating the nonsense out of the forum, because a lot of other guys would also be turned off posting, and I haven't been in here much myself lately because I couldn't stand seeing every helpful post rubbished by the hecklers, plus the personal attacks on Jim, me, 29F and Paul B.
>" Treatment was always just a secondary theme for me. Once the medical profession is aware of the problems and start experimenting they're sure to come up with hundreds of new techniques of treatment"Unfortunately, the medical profession still uses circumcision as the only treatment because it's a multi billion dollar business they aren't going to give up easily. There's no money for them in simple stretching.
It's normal for a foreskin to be tight at birth, and it's normal for it to eventually be stretched. Some boys just take a little longer to find the pleasurable way to stretch it, or they're told they mustn't, but the skin will stretch just as easily when they are older once they are shown, as it will when they are little.
I had an altercation with Frank in the Fathermag circ forum, about how to clean the baby's intact penis, which will prevent any phimosis.
http://forum.fathermag.com/circ/062/forum/messages/154480.shtml>" AND MUCH MORE IMPORTANT start checking young boys before the problems develop.
>RobinYes, if parents didn't clean the foreskin with that slightly fluting method that actually very gradually stretches the foreskin over a couple of years, and they discovered the tight foreskin later, all that needs to be done is teach the boy (or man) to stretch it.
You'll find plenty of success stories in here, but the disruptions are a turnoff.