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Written by glider at 11 Nov 2003 16:51:03: Re: Glans...glans...glans
As an answer to: Glans...glans...glans written by Rich at 30 Aug 2003 22:27:43:
Hi Rich,
I'm no expert in this, but here are a few things you could think about trying.
Apply some skin cream to your glans - e.g. Vaseline Intensive Care - and see if this makes touching it more bearable. If it does, then go with this for a while. Your glans may get used to the idea that it doesn't necessarily need to produce painful sensations just because it's being touched.
If your skin tans fairly easily, you could try sunbathing naked or using a sunbed with your forekin retracted. If you do try this, take things gradually, exposing it at first for only 10 minutes or so. The very fine skin should thicken somewhat and become more bearable to the touch.
Touch it a lot every day (with clean hands).
My guess is that your foreskin, although loose enough to uncover your glans, is not as loose as it could be, and that retracting it at the moment triggers full engorgement. Ideally, full engorgement occurs only immediately before orgasm. Even quite a leathery old glans can get almost too sensitive when fully engorged.
If you were to work on loosening your foreskin some more, you might find everything works pretty much exactly as you would like. You'll probably want to work out you own exercises for this but here's an idea of the sort of program it might be useful to devise.