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Written by Ralesk at 27 Jan 2004 01:58:25: Re: hypersensitive area
As an answer to: hypersensitive area written by really confused at 27 Jan 2004 00:41:32:
>well im 18 years old and have never had sex, wanna save up for that one special woman,I stumbled upon this site and it kinda scares me cause I've never ever seen my glans.....Its always covered and I dint think that it was a problem, the max I can see a little pinkish area through the end of my penis and the area is absolutely sensitive I cant even touch it and makes me jump when something touches the part accidently....I've never ever stretched etc.Will it cause problems, pain during sex? Really confused...
I guess it wouldn't be a bad idea if you tried the stretching methos Ivan and I usually suggest here -- pull the skin forward and try to open it (a very brief description).
The hypersensitivity is normal. That's how it is when the head of your penis hasn't been exposed and meddled with. It's not really meant to be touched anyway -- the vagina should be slippery enough that there isn't friction that would cause pain. When you expose the glans, it will slowly but steadily get used to such "input". It is very sensitive to rubbing, but as time goes it will be less and less sensitive. First this hypersensitivity will go away (this might be what some call optimal -- that they can play with their bits without jumping and all that) and later (that takes decades) its sensitivity will lessen further.
So, in conclusion, you shouldn't really fear of the glans being too sensitive as long as your GF is "wet" enough. It is suggested that you achieve the retractibility of your foreskin (this will also make such scary experiences as paraphimosis simply not happen, too).