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Doomed not to enjoy oral sex?

Written by Antony at 06 Feb 2004 08:35:58:

To some extend this is not easy to explain, so I only hope you will understand.
The shape of my glans is different from what I consider a perfectly normal glans does look like. The line that separates the glans from the shaft, which is called sulcus in my case goes like a stretched ellipse (i.e. my glans is big in length). Now my foreskin does retract, however in order to completely retract behind the glans it has a rather long way to go, bringing uncomfortable feeling. (And sometimes during intercourse I find myself making a pause to manually pull my foreskin back over penis head). My frenulum has never ripped, but when foreskin is fully pulled down (which again is alot of retraction) it adds tension and points the glans downward a bit. Exposed like this with retracted foreskin my glans is too sensitive. I can touch directly the top area, but the further down toward the sulcus I touch the more uncomfortable it feels. Masturbation is never a problem since I never touch head directly but only through my foreskin. Oral sex however is. With foreskin retracted the further down the touch is the worse it becomes. I can still have oral sex, it is not unbearable, but I can't ejaculate that way. The pleasurable sensations mix with the painful ones and the most I can do is stay aroused long time.
I am not ready to give up being like this for a lifetime. I know consulting an urologist is necessary and I've talked to mine about my problem. After hearing part of this he recommended circumcision. I don't believe it will help. I'm considering frenuloplasty instead, to get rid of some the troublesome tensions. Excuse my English, which is not my native language, I hope my description made some sense. If you by any chance are someone who could associate personally with this (having a close to this problem) than you will know how it feels and it will be nice to hear from you.


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