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Re: Resisting Cure For 26 Years & Counting

Written by Matt at 04 Mar 2004 17:51:09:

As an answer to: Re: Resisting Cure For 26 Years & Counting written by Charles II at 14 Dec 2003 07:26:35:

>AJ>Wow. That's scary that so many doctors didn't know what they were talking about.
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>Charles II> Actually, they did know what they were talking about. He admits having a problem that he knows he has, and has resisted doing anything to correct for 26 YEARS.
>THEY also recognized the problem, except that THEY offered a solution.
>A solution, it seems, is NOT what he wants. At some point in all these 26 years, he has to have come across at least one adult guy out of so many of them out there with the same problem that has successfully cured it and that does NOT have any more pain.
>There are many things that could be explained here to dispell his unfounded fears and wrong expectations and conclusions, but every so often you find a guy like this one that you recognize just does NOT want to hear it. I predict that this guy can figure out more "techniques" to go another 26 years making himself believe that pain and suffering are acceptable and that there is a way to have a 'normal' sex life with or around such obstacles. By age 52, hopefully, he will have lost interest in sex and not have to go for a third round. It COULD happen.


Sorry to burst your bubble but when I spoke to all three of these doctors they commented that they were aware of people suffering mild discomfort.

They didn't however ackowledge having EVER heard of people like myself experiencing real excruciating pain when the penis glans comes into contact with anything foreign.

I made my first post on this board around four months ago, and only discovered that people had replied when I was doing a 'google' tonight and accidentally came accross my OWN post!

(It took me a second before I even realised it was mine - wow I thought this guy has the same problem as.... no wait hehe)

I gotta say though, I was a little disapointed to see that like SO many other internet forums that the replies eventually began to refute what I was saying, paint me as being full of shit and then... of course.... just turn into plain old non-related bitching.

Thanks though to the few guys who really did offer so reassurance that I do have options and perhaps that the horrible pain WILL go away (and so it should - I wish it would fuck off to hell right now dammit!!! hehe).

Also, I guess, thanks to Charles for his complete mistake on my situation, and disregard for my feelings... it was out of order YET a bit of a wakeup call at the same time. I've gotta hand it to you in that regard Charles.

The next time I am feeling confident when I wake up, I am gonna make ANOTHER appointment to see the MOST helpful of the three urologists, bite the bullet by setting a date for the big chop... and hope that I was really making nothing more than a BIG FUSS to begin with.

I truly hope that it is the case - I really really do.

Take care guys and thanks veeeery much for the feedback. It was much appreciated.

Matt
Sydney


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