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Re: Worried and confused

Written by Ralesk at 17 Mar 2004 11:21:09:

As an answer to: Re: Worried and confused written by Phil at 17 Mar 2004 02:41:47:

>>>Im currently 18. A few months ago I was getting really worried that my foreskin would tear when I first have intercourse (and the pressure to do so is becoming more and more intense)! I plucked up the courage to tell my mate. He said I was suffering from the "cringe" factor and to just be brave. Well I managed to get my foreskin behind the head, however my penis wasn't erect. He reckons to just keep pulling it back. Recently I managed to get it behind the head when I had an erection, but it was really tight and eventually forced its own way back over the top. Also when it was erect it looked stupid. Because the foreskin was so tight it gave the impression of when you squeeze a baloon in the middle. Ive made huge progress to be able to do this though. however I know sex would be far too painful and in-order for me to get the foreskin behind my head when erect I have to pull it back when it is not erect then have the erection. Also due to its tightness, my penis isnt able to grow to its full potential. will I ever be able to overcome these problems without circumsition. And if so, how do I go about this? Please help
>>>Sorry this post was so long1
>>Don't worry about the length of the post.
>>You yourself say that you've made a big progress, and your mate is very right about that you just have to keep retracting. Continue, and all will be fine.
>>read http://f19.parsimony.net/forum33578/messages/11243.htm for a detailed description; hopefully you find it helpful.
>I did thankyou. but when you say all will be fine, what exactly do you mean by that? Given that Im stretching 3 times a day and getting my foreskin behind the glans first and then getting an erection and sustaining it for as long as possible, every day, how long do you estimate it to take. And will I ever be completely normal. Oh yeh, I have a question... in a completely normal situation, do peoples foreskins naturally retract without assistance when they get an erection, and if so, will it ever be possible for me to achieve this. This is important to me, because if a girl attempts to do whatever, I dont want to be thinking, oh my God, I must look different to every lad she's ever been with!
>Confidence is everything when it comes to girls and every1 thinks Im a confident person, well some girls gonna get a shock soon when she sees how embarassed I am, and girls talk, and this is something which is a really depressing thought. I know I come across as a bit vein here, but believe me, its a really difficult subject and Im sure that it would mean just as much to every1 else.


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