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Re: No Return

Written by Ralesk at 30 Mar 2004 19:36:28:

As an answer to: No Return!!!!???!! written by J at 30 Mar 2004 13:20:41:

>Hi guys...I did try the stretching before.. had made some progress... and stopped.. mainly cuz of laziness ... scare of flipping/ripping open my foreskin.. (cuz try that 2 times before accidentally when erect during sex and pain was ... undescribable... lucky no blood and able to get back up covering head)

Actually ripping it (as in, the skin would break and bleed) is pretty damn hard to do. I understand your concern about getting it behing the head, and that it’s uncomfortable, even painful. More work on the foreskin should and will clear that up.

>but now comes my real question... my gf is leaving soon and i won't be having sex for a long time.. and i feel this is perhaps the best time to be motivated and really fix the problem... but my concern is... right now when i have sex... of course my foreskin is not retractable at all.. i feel no pain because no retraction (skin cover head compleletely) but also no COMFORT from sex at all.. now if start the stretchiing and do it for a year or so... i ASSUME that it will be a lot loose than right now.. but what im scare of is... what if is able to go halfway down the glans retractable when erect.. but not completely.. will i reach a state of screwing myself up and no return?... why is that..

No, doubtful you will. Besides, if it gets stuck behind the head, there is a way to get it to come back forward again. Logical, no? Paraphimosis is NOT something life-threatening, nor serious enough to be this scared of. If it does happen, all you need is to summon some courage, press on the cockhead to push the blood back into the shaft, and push the skin forward. Don’t rub, because that will surely hurt.

Besides that, it’s unlikely you’ll progress would just stop in the middle of everything and leave you with a not quite retractable foreskin. So don’t worry ;)


>because i will no longer be able to have sex like now without worrying pain from a totally non-retractable skin... in the future... since is more loose but not completely retractable.... there will be high chances of me 'ripping' the skin open in pain during sex due to being more loose .. but also since i did so much strecthing.. it will not return to the very tight 'mode' like now when 'ripping during sex' is less likely..

I don’t know where you heard this “you have a big chance to rip the foreskin” thing, but you should forget it fast. How long won’t your girlfriend be around? If you do your stretching exercises every day (more than once each day), and do it properly, your foreskin is likely to undergo significant changes in only a matter of a couple months. For the better, too.

>will this cause a situation of no return cuz im halfway in loosing it but can't do it completely... and i'm no longer 'very tight' like before to ENSURE no pain during sex...

It won’t/shouldn’t be painful once you reach the state where you can comfortably retract when erect. That’s a mere six–ten weeks if you really work on it, from there it’s fine-tuning.

>sorry for writing so long ... i hope is everyone can understand what im trying to say..
>please help me out..
>Thanks very much :)

Hope I've been of help ^^


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