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Lack of knowledge on subject and have questions

Written by Jared at 10 Apr 2004 08:26:09:

Well this is long and drawn out, and I'm not even sure after reading all of the pages if phimosis is my issue or not. Here goes..

For the last year my experiences of trying to have sex have been with women of ill-refute whom I obviously didn't know personally nor did they care to listen to whatever issues or sensitivities I might have physically. The first time she was trying to start intercourse and after a minute or so of my trying to figure out what was wrong (I had no idea about this issue until then) I gave up and let her try her thing which quickly ended up with my pushing her off of me and the both of us realising my foreskin was torn and I was bleeding a little bit from it. It wasn't an incredible pain but it was obvious to me I couldn't resume, much less finish what was started. After a few days I felt good as new.

A few months later I tried asking for oral pleasures. I wasn't in pain nor discomforted but I specifically told her to be careful and as a result she didn't do anything that would necesarilly cause pain. My discomfort was pretty obvious though and I ended up having to finish on my own simply because what she was doing didn't make me feel all too good.

Just recently I asked for a girl to masturbate me. I gave her a brief speech on my sensitivity and she was actually doing alright although I was still somewhat uncomfortable. Given the fact she had a time limit one of her buddies jumped in trying to take over and immediately stroked down the entire shaft, which caused my entire foreskin to go down roughly. I ended up with the torn foreskin yet again and as with before I healed quickly and it wasn't all that painful.

I can masturbate just fine but I don't go down the whole shaft, I just stick to the base. I'm certainly happy that my body has defended my losing my virginity to prostitutes, however I cannot help but feel like less of a man simply because of my problem.

I don't know if it is phimosis. I've gone far enough to decide to have medical (I'm in the USMC) discuss with me what's going on. Anyone with any idea whats going on please reply. I just saw this page today, a Saturday and until reading this I was determined to schedule for a circumcision.


Oh well, whatever I guess.
Jared


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