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a few problems...

Written by chris at 23 Apr 2004 03:29:34:

ok so.. i am 20 years old and have a healthy sex life

but a few weeks ago my fremulum ripped, i know for a fact this was due to a lack of lubrication and intense sex and it gradually happened over a period of a month or so (tho i never relised till after). when it ripped it hurt like hell and bled but i only really noticed that it had ripped till a few days later, so anyway it healed to the point where i can pull back and forth my foreskin without any pain at all. great!

but it then happened again (well it didnt rip significantly or anything but it bled) this i think was due to having sex too soon after it initially ripped and i know that if i take care and lubricate it well it will be ok and won't bleed again (as it has being)

(before it ripped, it was very thin and very tight and bent the head of my penis considerably which always felt very pleasent)

me and my girlfriend have a lot of sex and since my fremulum ripped only the "position" which i was in when my fremulum ripped (her on top) hurts, but apart from that my sex life is great and i have no pain, if anything since ripping my fremulum the actual sex has been better and more intense i mean we have sex on average at least 14 times a week and have done for 3months, however since ripping my fremulum the actual "orgasm" itself has being less intense, (maybe this is because my fremulum pulled my penis head significantly giving a huge sensation?) but it feels different from what it used to be(not worse or painful, just different, is this to be expected?

since breaking my fremulum when i cum during masterbation (which i have been doing a lot recently as i havent seen my girlfriend) i have noticed my sperm is quite watery, and cumming is less intense when i masterbate/ and sometimes when i have sex maybe this is due to masterbating too much though in recent weeks and having sex too frequently but or is it to do with my diet? (i am vegetarian) or something more? i'm just worried that i've developed some kind of problem and im worried about causing permanant damage.

is too much sex and / or masterbation bad for you?? help!

any information/advice/re-assurance is welcome.
thanks



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