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Re: Phimosis or Frenulum Breve

Written by David R. at 30 Apr 2004 16:36:09:

As an answer to: Re: Phimosis or Frenulum Breve written by Ralesk at 24 Apr 2004 21:26:11:

>>As usual, the answers you have gotten about not getting circumcised or having the frenulum cut are wrong. At least Ralesk is consistent in his being wrong-at any-costs stance. And he continues to make the point that RIC is indeed the only way to go. But on to your problem. It is clearly frenulum breve and all the creams, stretching etc have never been shown to be really effective in overcoming it. While division of the frenulum or lengthening of it is effective, there is often associated phimosis- the two don't HAVE to go together, but they often do. Interestingly, many men with this condition often find that the frenulum is not a particularly pleasant spot to stimulate but rather, find it painful. Not sure why that is but we are all different. Circumcision is the BEST answer to this and the various methods and techniques to get the optimum result are available for you to research. Circlist is the best place as the information is concentrated and you don't have to spend a lot of time researching all over the Net. Your partner will notice an enormous difference after a circumcison. First off, she will actually FEEL the penis moving during thrusting rather than a more muted 'being filled' sensation and for the first time in your sexual experience, you too will feel stimulation of the entire penis. There will be no 'now I feel my glans, now I don't' phenomenon, with full stimulation of the glans occuring only, if and when, the foreskin finally 'locks' behind the glans just prior to orgasm. These were for me, shocking sensations, and it took a while to get used to it. But intercourse changes from 'masturbation in a vagina' to something much more giving and as a result is more pleasurable. So, be not afraid, of surgery, if that is ever a consideration for you. Short of that, you will not ever likely get complete freedom from the problem you have. It is not, contrary to what the inexperienced 'advisors' here are likely to tell you, something that is readily and satisfactorily fixed.


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