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Some resolutions

Written by Roger at 10 May 2004 00:58:02:

WEll guys...i could say that my story resembles pretty much the one told but EBT from Norway in his message "Phimosis since childhood , my story" most of his words could also be said by me. And now I must say anyways that since last week when for some reason I started really considering this fact of having phimosis ( or being tight ) , I was getting really depressed with it all because I ever thought I was normal but then I felt I wasn't and also that a surgery would be unavoidable but after thinking a lot and getting to talk to some people through the net who are also tight and have lived their lives kinda of normally without making so much ado , I see I can sure live with it by considering that some are tight and others aren't the same was some are beautiful and others not that much :o)
Some messages have even scard me by saying that if I 'm really tight ( pinhole phimosis ) I must do the surgery otherwise I could have problems and so....but after seen guys have lived with that for so long without having any problems except the fact of not being able to see their glans ...I conclude I and many other guys can surely live so with out the stress of a surgery which would remove for ever a piece of skin with which we've been since ever , with which we are so used and without which we could end up feeling worse than before as the sensitivity would be bad.
I've even heard of married guys whose both parent and children are tight and live quite normally....

I concluded also that as in this world where we live people LOVE to set RULES and NORMS ...maybe being tight has had in the world's history such a reason for being considered negative.
I got to feel quite bad cause I guess our society is made to believer that the guy with phimosis "can not" live "normally" ....but we sure can as I've confirmed with some guys and that's it. Why undergo such a stressful and hurtful procedure to remove something we 've been with for so long ?!??!
Just to SATISFY other's opnions about us....to confirm some kinda of male identity created by someone I don't even know in a time in the past for some reason which doesn't match to our present reality.....
Ok seeing those cut guys in the porn movies....beautiful .....but why to suffer....just to be "accepted" .....WE BETTER WANT TO BE ACCEPTED BY WHOM WE REALLY ARE AND NOT BY WATCH WE LOOK LIKE !!!!!!!!!!!!


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