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Written by ee at 10 May 2004 10:29:33: Re: Somewhat off-topic
As an answer to: Re: Somewhat off-topic written by Jon B. at 10 May 2004 07:13:39:
>Anyway... all that will help me later on. I'm unease, though... I'm going to see a very respected doctor in his area. I just don't want to sit and say "I've got EP, that's all" and get kicked out of the office.
You won't get kicked out of the office that's for sure, I bet thousands of guys before you have asked him the same thing. I think one of the major issue here is with what you said, you're uneasy. Relaaax. What's there to be uneasy about? Nothing. Exactly.
It sounds like you put way too much pressure on yourself. Maybe that's the problem you have with PE as well. Let go, be happy. No part of what you're worried about REALLY matters, so take a deep breath and relax. You've made it this far and you're ok, you'll overcome it. And if you don't, that's OK too. Stop being so hard on yourself. Don't aim for perfection and don't aim for failure. Don't aim at all. Just be.