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Written by Greg at 01 Jun 2004 17:28:50: Re: Advice need please
As an answer to: Advice need please written by Sam at 31 May 2004 21:26:27:
Very cool to hear your sexual experiences. I am 17, from the UK, with phimosis, and have had sex once and the girl didn't comment on my penis either. I am however worried about other girls that will be turned off or even laugh at my condition, you know how girls tell their friends everything!
I'd say try stretching, its been working quite well for me so far.
Good luck.
>I have only recently been aware of phimosis and pretty sure I have what is described as "pinhole phimosis". Here's my story:
>Growing up, I always assumed my penis was the same as everybody else's. I am from the UK and most males here are uncircumsised. I haven't seen many other male penises due to not being in many "locker-room scenarios".
>Ever since I can remember I have masturbated by humping the bed, that is, not using my hands at all. Obviously I am aware that most males do manual stimulation, but I find it difficult, almost impossible to orgasm this way. The only way I can cum using my hand is too rub against something until I am on the verge of climaxing and then "finishing off" with my hand. However, I can orgasm fine when having sex. In fact, I have found that because the kind of stimulation I get when having sex is different from the kind I get when masturbating, I can last a lot longer when having sex and thus please the woman more than most guys (I think).
>I am 19. I lost my virginity when I was 18 and have had sex twice since. When I tried to penetrate her it hurt quite a lot due to the fact that my foreskin wouldn't retract. So it took a while to penetrate the girl but once I was inside I was fine and we had normal sex. The second and third times I had sex (each with different girls) it didn't hurt much at all really and neither commented on my penis. However, I found handjobs and blowjobs to be quite uncomfortable because my foreskin wouldn't retract.
>Basically it is impossible for me to retract my foreskin over (let alone behind) my glans, yet it hasn't really caused me any problems. I have had pleasurable sexual experiences so far, and although I haven't sex in a long while I'm sure the next time will be good too.
>So I think it's a case of "if it ain't broke don't fix it". Nevertheless, I know that I am not normal and it would be quite nice to have a fully-retractable foreskin. I think I have already helped my phimosis by having penetrative sex and being masturbated manually (judging by how it hurt the first time but less each next time).
>Does anyone have any advice as to what I should do?
>(I apoloise for the slightly rambling nature of this post).
>Thanks,
>Sam