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Please help! Pinhole phimosis

Written by Desperate girl at 15 Jun 2004 07:31:53:

Dear all,

I started to date a guy half a year ago and found he has pinhole phimosis according to information I found on this website (thank you for the information!). He does not know it and thinks himself normal.

We are both serious about the relationship, and are talking about marriage. Because of education and religion reasons, we are not allowed to have pre-marriage sex. But since I know his condition is abnormal, I am not sure if we even can have sex. As descried in the forum "Reports suggest either little sexual activity or a one sided appetite." What does one-sided appetite mean? Is it possible to have good sex with a guy having pinhole phimosis condition. Will condom help? I am totally desperate and need further information .

The opening of his foreskin is really small even during erection (less than 5 mm), and he complains pain on his penis head (glans) when exposed through the pinhole. And it is also painful when the foreskin surrounding the hole retracts only a little bit. However, I think operation is probably not an option because of the sensitivity of his glans. In addition, although he is only 34, he occasionally has erectile dysfunction already -- takes him a long time to get erected. I think an operation will make things worse.

I sincerely hope to hear from you about what to do to help him.

Thank you!
A desperate girl


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