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Written by Ivan at 16 Jun 2004 02:53:39: Re: Please help! Pinhole phimosis
As an answer to: Re: Please help! Pinhole phimosis written by Desperate girl at 16 Jun 2004 02:29:41:
>Thank you, Ralesk. These information certainly helps a whole lot!!
>The "one sided appetite" is quoted from http://www.male-
>initiation.net/phimosis.html#start under the section of FULL PHIMOSIS - (PINHOLE PHIMOSIS). Under the same section, it also said that " It is probable that late treatment would create greater disturbances than it would cure. Men who are aware of their condition often complain that the only problem they have is other people telling them they have a problem." I am not sure if I should let my boyfriend know his condition, especially given he sometimes already has erectile dysfuntion. Pls. adise.
>Another question I have is that will Pinhole Phimosis affect ejectulation? He told me he has never been able to ejectulate during masturbation, and he can only ejec at nights. To my knowledge, this does not sound normal. Could phimosis be the cause? Or it is actually normal? Will people be able to ejectulate with pinhole phimosis during a normal intercourse?
>I have too many questions to ask. Thank you!
It sounds like he has other problems. The things you are concerned about are not related to phimosis. If he can pee, then there is plenty of room for semen to come out (and if he can't pee, he would have exploded by now). There are plenty of men who have had full happy actice sex lives with phimosis. The erectile dysfunction is also not a problem of the glans being covered - he can receive plenty of glans stimulation through the foreskin, and besides, the foreskin is as sexually sensitive and responsive as is the glans.You know, it sounds like you are quite familiar with his penis, even if you haven't had intercourse. If so, you could start him on stretching exercises by making it a part of the play you do with him. Tug on the foreskin both out and wider, not too far, but don't touch the glans directly as it is just as sensitive as your clitoris under its hood (imagine him exposing your clitoris and grabbing it with dry hands and rubbing!!!)
Thinking back on the problems he has, it sounds like he may be immensely uncomfortable about sex in general. If a guy has had the 'sex is evil' message drilled into his head, he can easily have trouble with erections. And very few guys who are comfortable with masturbation would (1) only be able to ejaculate at night and (2) have a tight foreskin. You might want to see about exploring that side of his attitudes to see if that's where the problem lies. Good luck.