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Written by jack at 06 Aug 2004 22:06:56: Re: Please help! Pinhole phimosis
As an answer to: Re: Please help! Pinhole phimosis written by Gram at 06 Aug 2004 16:47:48:
>Hi
>I had the same problem as ur boyfriend- the only really problem for me was aiming whilst peeing which could sometimes prove a bit messy after a few pints. Anyway, tell your boyfriend that the circumcision is worth it is a lot cleaner, and oral sex will be a lot more pleasurable. The only problems I had after the op was an infection, but this can be treated with antibiotics. It's now nearly three weeks later and eveything is almost back to normal. I would recommend it. It may be hard to get your boyfriend to see the doc, but the promise of a killer BJ after a few weeks should do the job!
>Cheers
>G
>>Dear all,
>>I started to date a guy half a year ago and found he has pinhole phimosis according to information I found on this website (thank you for the information!). He does not know it and thinks himself normal.
>>We are both serious about the relationship, and are talking about marriage. Because of education and religion reasons, we are not allowed to have pre-marriage sex. But since I know his condition is abnormal, I am not sure if we even can have sex. As descried in the forum "Reports suggest either little sexual activity or a one sided appetite." What does one-sided appetite mean? Is it possible to have good sex with a guy having pinhole phimosis condition. Will condom help? I am totally desperate and need further information .
>>The opening of his foreskin is really small even during erection (less than 5 mm), and he complains pain on his penis head (glans) when exposed through the pinhole. And it is also painful when the foreskin surrounding the hole retracts only a little bit. However, I think operation is probably not an option because of the sensitivity of his glans. In addition, although he is only 34, he occasionally has erectile dysfunction already -- takes him a long time to get erected. I think an operation will make things worse.
>>I sincerely hope to hear from you about what to do to help him.
>>Thank you!
>>A desperate girl
Even though there are guys who get a circ and end up liking it, there are also guys who have it and don't like it, that is why they are trying to regrow it. I'm going to venture and say most guys, had they the choice would opt to keep their foreskin, but sometimes they feel circ is the only way out. I'm currently stretching it with the methods described on this site and I find that in one week the size of the hole has doubled from a dime size to a quarter, all this without cream. So try to get your boyfriend to make up his own mind since it is his penis.
Jack.