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Written by chImp at 05 Sep 2004 19:01:23: Re: Relevant Comments About My Story
As an answer to: Re: Relevant Comments About My Story written by stp at 05 Sep 2004 17:33:54:
>thanks a lot for this post it was really enlightening. I have been stretching and its done wonders, my problem like yours is now about sensitivity.
It's great that you liked my post!
>How long did you find before the hyper-sensitivity was diminished, when girls rub the glans now is it pleasurable.
(no, direct contact between glans and someones hand still frightens me)
After I first realized I needed to lower my sensitivity, I pretty much accomplished that in about 3 days. It's no difficult at all. I tried 3 methods:
1) Put a condom on and try to rub it with your fingers ( not very effective or,for that matter, painful )
2) Wrap a thin t-shirst around the dick and shake it (did it for a couple of days, 1 hour an average perhaps). This is helpful!
3) Rub the dick (with foreskin retracted) against my gf's vagina skin. I think this one helped as well, but #2 is the most important.
However: from I finished stretching (May-June 2003) to I had successful sex (July 2004) it took more than a year to get the sensitivity I have now. Of course, that very special incitement, which is sex, I only got at the end of May 2004, and that's when I worked on my sensitivity.
Basically, once you'll get a willing gf, you'll have plenty of motivation and accomplish the task in a matter of days! It's amazing what us men do for nookie!
>I am just looking at a time frame, i try and rub the glans as i am masturbating in hopes that my body will start to like it but often it kills the sexual drive.
First, ensure that when you're masturbating you're watching some erotic material. I recommend following Internet sites: "www.goatlist.com" and "www.cowlist.com". It really makes a huge difference!
Do you rub the glans with your hand? I never do that, it's at this point still not necessary for me, although I am able to have normal sex and although I know most guys touch their glans with their hand while masturbating.
>This is definitely something that i worry about a LOT, and im going to try to do the t-shirt idea.
By the way, when I did that, I had my laptop nearby, with "www.cowlist.com" !Reducing sensitivity is the least of all phimosis-related problems, that takes no brain at all!