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Re: 25 yr old makes a discovery

Written by Gary at 22 Oct 2004 08:54:53:

As an answer to: Re: 25 yr old makes a discovery written by halfclip at 21 Oct 2004 08:25:36:

>Your experience is quite unfortunate in that your parents never taught you about your penis, or that friends didn't mention that during masturbation, you're supposed to pull the skin back fully at every stroke.
>When the anti-circers succeeded in stopping mass circ at birth, they should have also focused on ensuring parents got rid of their prudish attitudes and got the father to have a sex talk with the pubescent boy so the boy can judge if his foreskin is ok or not (or have the foreskin loosen by itsefl due to proper massturbation technique).
>In your particular case, you did not mention how severe your phimosis was.
>When soft, are you able to fully retract without problem ? With some problem ?
>How much can you expose when hard ?
>Depending on the tightness of your phimosis, the steroid creams might be necessary to get an acceptable result before you have gray hair. In the end, you want to waste as few precious years in the prime of your sex life due to some process that could take forever (or never) if you startded out with an extremely tight foreskin.


Thanks for the reply. My foreskin is fairly tight. I read and diagnosed myself a case of pin hole phimosis. Well its not really all of the foreskin that constricts movement just one tiny little ring of tissue which is the problem that prevent the entire loose skin around it from moving back. I cannot move it back either in non-erectile state or while erect. This ring that constrains the opening, i would guess is about 20 percent at its maximum flexibility of the diameter of the entire glans, which is too small.

I am not going to waste any time discussing what or why my family missed advising about my genitalia. Early on I always thought tight foreskin in males was a sign of virginity and it would eventually get taken care of, althought the tightness was a bit of a concern. But after the few sexual outings i have had, i think i am still a 'virgin'. :)

Many thanks Geoff B for that article. I am going to keep at it although the last four days haven't produced any changes. However, i am going to try to keep at it.

Thanks again everyone.
Gary


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