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Re: Some useful information for anon...

Written by Ivan at 13 Nov 2004 03:09:46:

As an answer to: Re: Some useful information for anon... written by chImp at 13 Nov 2004 01:12:22:

>Listen, they are both virgins, and the guy just asked whether the pill is reliable or not. It is. What your post suggested is to create some sort of an Orwellian society. If a guy wants to make love to his girlfriend, he needs to put on several condoms and feel the girl's arm to see whether she has a contraceptive implant there. Hey, why don't we make a database of all the people with their diseases and tatoo those who have them? It just seemed to me that your advice was completely out of touch with reality, and as for the proof - what happened to the guy who posted the message? He's gone. You scared him off.
>If people post messages here, they're looking for straight answers. You didn't give that to him, because you didn't give advice based on your own personal experience, but rather emailed some other guy and fed your "client" governmental propaganda.
>Hey, while you were at it, why didn't you just recommend for them to abstain from sex altogether until they get married? Bush would agree.
>Oh, and you forgot to tell him to abstain from alcohol and cigarettes as well.
>This whole issue begs the question: what is your own experience with sex, virins, condoms, diseases and contraceptive pills? If you don't want this discussion here, feel free to email me an
>an13on-yahoo.no
>Just don't scare any more people off with this kind of advice.
chImp, although the guy said he didn't want to wear a condom, he asked "what are your best opinions for prevention of baby making?" I gave it. You want personal experience? I didn't mind using condoms before I got married. I was far more relaxed because I had taken my own precaution. When I was ready for baby-making, I found the pleasures of sex without a condom, and it is better but it would not be if I was sweating bullets over making a baby I did not want to make.

As for being scary, parenthood is scary. So is responsibility. There are too many women out there who are not trustworthy, and that is particularly true of adolescents who accept having sex early. Having a baby can be seen as a way to force a guy to commit, or a ticket away from the parents, or a means to the dole, etc. Certainly you must have found, chImp, that any woman who would have sex with you is emotionally unstable :-P


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