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Written by GeoffB at 26 Apr 2005 22:57:57: Re: Advice for me and my husband
As an answer to: Re: Advice for me and my husband written by Andy at 26 Apr 2005 12:08:19:
Since there has been no reply, I am beginning to wonder if this is a real post or a troll, with pro-circumcision views, just stirring up people who oppose the practice and creating the impression that women hate foreskins. If you are real Mrs K. get back to us with your thoughts on our responses.
Geoff
>You have truly stirred up a hornets nest with your posting! My advice is simple; surgery of this nature should never be undertaken simply for cosmetic reasons, and never to just to improve your Libido!
>I believe that if you love your man as much as you indicate, then it is simply wrong to ask him to undertake a circumcism, simply to improve your sexual habits. You should love your Man as He is, whole, unaltered, and with all His physical and characteristic attributes intact. Remember, God created Man in his own image – and that includes with a foreskin. If He had a big nose, would you want that surgically altered? Heaven forbid, if He was to suffer a disfigurement, would you love Him any less? I strongly urge you to first and foremost consider the true depth and strength of your love before you start trying to remodel your man into a condition purely for your own appetite.
>That said, you need to talk it over with your Husband, find out how he feels. After 2 years of Marriage, there should be nothing you cannot discuss openly and honestly with Him. Tell Him how you feel, and then, the very first thing you should do is experiment and learn new ways of stimulating each other – it may well be that He is also suffering some frustration as a result of you abstaining. Discuss it – maybe He isn’t as fussed about Surgery as you might think?
>Whatever you do, I urge you not to rush into anything, don’t pressure him, and good luck to the both of you.
>Andy