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Girlfriend sorted the phimosis problem, but I can't reach orgasm

Written by Anon at 23 May 2005 15:56:21:

I've had phimosis for as long as I can remember and I'm now 21. I've only recently entered a relationship where I've felt I need to sort the problem out and lose my virginity once and for all, as in the past I've always had the feeling that I'm different from other guys and I've always made excuses.

The other night I let my girlfriend masturbate me for the first time, thankfully because of the (quite forceful) technique she was using she actually managed to eventually pull my foreskin back over my glans for the very first time. From her point of view I guess it just looked like it needed a bit of work, but from mine it was a great relief that it actually worked.

Since then we haven't actually had sex yet as she's on her period, but every time she masturbates me I seem to get a really intense pleasure out of it as she rubs the glans directly. It's getting to the point where I can't really make my mind up whether it's good or not as the sensation is something I'm not really used to.

It's causing her to think she's not turning me on enough though. Although I can keep it up for over an hour whilst she plays with me I've yet to actually climax and ejaculate whilst she masturbates me. It's beginning to worry me a little as I don't want her to get the wrong idea, and also I'm beginning to think there's something wrong with me. Makes a change from ejaculating too early I suppose, but it's still bugging me and I really don't know what to do about it.

Do you think I just need time to get used to the new sensations or can anyone suggest any other solutions?


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