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Written by Charles II at 15 Jul 2005 22:38:21: Re: Advice for husband and Mrs. K
As an answer to: Re: Advice for me and my husband -How about written by H 77 at 15 Jul 2005 21:47:34:
Sex is a central part of a relationship, and a relationship that is a lifetime commitment means that you are probably stuck with your sex partner, and him or her alone, for life. That's why I firmly believe in premarital sex. You wouldn't think of buying a car without first test driving it, would you? It can be vital to your sexual health and happiness to have a partner you are compatible and stasfied with, and you need to know that BEFORE you make that commitment. I know that some relisious beliefs will have a problem with that, but I don't believe that some people should have to suffer their whole lives while most others don't; who benefits from that?
Most teen boys tell each other that if a girl doesn't like your uncircumcised penis, she's not worth it and you don't need her. Fine, if the guy is happy with his penis and doesn't want to change it. But she has just as much right to her own happiness too, and should find the guy that is right for HER in the bedroom.
Some guys love their wives or girl friends enough to make what may be a big sacrifice, to please them. Sometimes they find out that it was the best thing they ever did, for themselves, not just for their ladies. But not always. You have to please yourself, first.