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Re: Tight foreskin

Written by Will at 15 Mar 2002 16:05:16:

As an answer to: Re: Tight foreskin written by Jake Booth at 13 Mar 2002 22:02:17:

Cheers mate, I'm from the UK too. I've read your comments and you don't have all that big a problem.

First, lots and lots of boys wank themselves by moving their foreskin forward over the knob, in fact, from my observations, I would have thought it was much the prefered way of having a toss. It is for me I know.

Secondly, in your current situation, there's no need to be afraid of sex with a potential girl friend. What you do works equally well with or without a condom, but, of course, a condom is the way to go for safety's sake for both of you.

First, slip round to the chemist's and buy a tube of K-Y Jelly, it doesn't cost much at all. No matter what your situation, even if your foreskin was loose or for boy's who've been circumcised too, you always need to lubricate the condom so it slips in and out of the girl easily, otherwise it will be painful for her before you're through and the condom may tear. Also be sure to find a condom brand and size that fits you snugly, not one that's sloppy and loose when it's on. Again, this is the same for everybody, no matter what type of willie you have.

Without a condom, lots of people will say sex isn't possible... RUBBISH. To keep your foreskin from being forced right back, you use that same K-Y Jelly to lubricate the outside of your foreskin. This won't make you different, cos if the girl's been with a circumcised boy, she knows he has to use lube on his willie or both he and her get chaffed raw.

Now, as for what your lady will think, you just tell her that pulling your foreskin right back is uncomfortable for you and that the knob is too sensitive and you want to leave it forward. Believe me, if you touched the knob on her penis (clitoris), she'd let you know instantly what she doesn't like and expect you to respect what she wants. If you want to wank each other without having penetrative sex, then ask her what feels good and how she'd like you to do it -- she'll think the world of you for being considerate, and then show her how you like to be wanked off.

Keep in mind there's nothing wrong with you, you just have a natural difference in your foreskin, one that s not at all unusual.

Finally, what the lads here are talking to you about, is finding something that you can put in the opening on the tip of your foreskin to keep it from going closed as it normally would, i.e. hold it slightly open and keep tension on it so the opening begins to stretch and learn a new trick. As it stretches, you find something else a bit larger to make it stretch a bit more. Don't get hung up on what you use, find what ever works for you, what's been suggested is just that, suggestions to help you. Keep in mind that whatever it is you use, it should be absolutely smooth, cause the tip to stretch - but not painfully, and if you can get something with a hole or drill one, then you can have a pee without having to take it out. Easy peasy mate.




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