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Written by pmretracted at 18 Mar 2002 09:39:50: Re: Minor cuts while stretching/sensitivity Retraction
As an answer to: Minor cuts while stretching written by Greg at 18 Mar 2002 08:19:54:
First of all, to all that have a foreskin,Yes itīs suppose to retract the whole way over the glans.
And reading some of the posting on some sites some men are only discovering that late in life, which is a shame that they have missed out on so much for years.
It does take time and don't be in a hurry,as most of the joy should be in getting that bit further as you go along.
The secret is to go as far as you can tolerate, within a level of pain, never to the limit of actually tearing your foreskin that it bleeds
I guess though that most of us have, at some stage got that little cut through good sex,either intercourse, or mastrubation a little tear just under the glans
It might be an idea to leave everthing alone for a week until it heals
And if you do normally leave your glans exposed cover up until it heals
As a guy who wears his foreskin retracted all the time, which took many years of stretching and patience,and a little tearing and pain.(and I felt very isolated growing up as I didnīt know anyone else that did it)
When I started having sex my foreskin was more of a hindrence than a help, as it use to slide back over the glans in the most uncomfortable fashion during intercourse.
And was unbearable when wearing a condom.
I was also extremely sensitive and after ejaculation it was paramount to severe pain if I didnīt withdraw and avoid touching anything for about 30 minutes.
As I got older and used to been permantely retracted, and my foreskin would stay behind the glans during intercourse, the difference was unbeleivable.
A greater control and superior feeling.lasting longer on most occassions
So A number of factors come into play on sensitivity,outside the control of men
One is alcohol a number of drinks before hand reduceses sensitivity to a certain degree.
Another has a lot to with the woman one is with
As woman are different also, and depending on their secretion, vagina and pelvic muscles and actual participation in intercourse.
Some just lie there and take it in, others thrust back in unision like a perfect fit.(the memories)
However reading most postings here it is evident that nearly all the men are just having sex, and for the purpose of shooting their load one way or another,via defferent methods
Instead of developing the art of making love
Where using their penis as another sense organ like a finger.
Being able to translate what the glans feels into a meaningful expression
How warm a woman is, how moist she is ,how snug the fit is,and telling her that can be very erotic,
Sometimes its better to approach sex without the intention of shooting ones load,
Circumcised men may have less sensitivty and some may feel deprived not having a foreskin
Is it because that they wish to have one, for the extra friction on the glans
Or because they havnīt mastered the art of utilising the actual senses in the glans.