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Re: Tight foreskin, very sci-fi....please help me!

Written by AJ at 13 Jun 2002 15:43:00:

As an answer to: Tight foreskin, very sci-fi....please help me! written by Gregory at 12 Jun 2002 22:30:07:

>She (the doctor) told me it was common and if i wanted somthing doing i could have circumcision. I asked her if it would cause me pain during sex and she said yes.

There's alternatives than that of circumcision. If I were you I'd be inclined to check out the ARC web site that hosts this forum and look into Dorsal Slit and Partial-Circumcision. If you were inclined you try stretching, which works for some and not for others. You'll hear a lot of stuff from the anti-circumcision community about stretching, but a lot of it is just fiction.

>1) The odds are good this friday ill be hooking up with this grl i like and until a few days ago i wasnt nervous (typical) but now ill need to either explain this to her or put off sex for as long as this takes to sort out, i have no idea how long that is...?

Healing from any of the usual surgiers is around 2 to 3 weeks. If you are going to get results from stretching, they may be apparent from anywhere of 2 weeks to 2 years.

2) because my penis head will have been under the skin since god nos it will probly be very sensative (im not too sure but i get queezy just thinkn bout it).

This is because it has never seen the light of day or that is hasn't been *ahem* handled, touched, rubbed on clothing etc. Once you achieve what you want to achieve and the head does see the light of day, then it'll take a little while to get pass the discomfort of it (it took me about 2-3 weeks after I had a partial circ last year - for problems similar to what you have).

>i dont want to put anything like bottle tops or anything under the skin unless i really become ok with touching it.

When you see the consultant I'd strongly suggest that you bring this bottle top idea up with him. Once he stops laughing, and realises you are not joking, ask him what the pros and cons are, and how dangerous he thinks it is.

>Sorry again this was quite a read but if u made it thus far and have any answers to my problems/questions please PLEASE respond!

Again, I strongly suggest that you don't let yourself be scared out of seeing the consultant by tales from the anti-circ movement. Also, I'd be inclined to ask him whatever questions you ask here and also see what his response is to any suggestions you will be given here - including mine.

All the best.


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