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Written by Paul B. at 04 Jul 2002 22:18:38: Really need to know
As an answer to: Need to know written by BK at 04 Jul 2002 17:50:53:
> I have a question for you guys.
There are some girls who read here. {:-)}
> I have heard a lot about some girls have tight vagina and others don't.
Having a baby (assuming it comes out naturally) certainly loosens things a lot!
> How tight is really tight?
Really tight is when she is so anxious that nothing can get in.
> How far is a lubricant effective?
As far as it gets. And as far as it stays.
> And what is the right one to use?
The natural one. If you plan to do anything before the young(?) lady is sufficiently enthusiastic that she has made her panties quite wet and slippery, or your hand if it has somehow taken the place of her panties, then you would have to use some artificial lubricant. Now how you get the artificial lubricant inside her is an exercise in itself.
> I have a normal penis size and intact.
Then you have a major advantage to begin with as an intact foreskin is designed to (help) keep the lubrication, both hers and yours (as you will find that being with a girl causes you to produce plenty of your own "pre-cum" or lubricant, even if you do not at any other time), inside her where it is needed. And if your foreskin does not retract until you enter her, that makes the entry even easier.
> What would I expect during intercourse.
You should expect to take it very slowly, very gently and indeed, leave it entirely to her to direct what you do from the point of inviting you to enter her, to how you thrust. If you have been so unfortunate as to have seen pornographic movies and attempt to copy the behaviour therein in any shape or form, you will be disappointed, but not half as much as the young lady, who will think you a right fool and may never forgive you.
> Do I need any precautions?
Precautions against what? Remember that intercourse causes pregnancy and is quite effective in doing so, therefore you should not do it unless and until you are comfortable with the concept of fathering a child (a process that involves at least 20 years of your time).
Whilst the use of condoms and oral contraceptive pills (preferably together) reduces this risk substantially, many mistakes can and do occur, resulting in pregnancy, so if you can't as they say, "walk the walk", you shouldn't "talk the talk" and have intercourse.
Precautions against sexually transmitted disease (STD)? Well of course, the whole point of intercourse is sharing. You share your partner's whole previous experience of sexuality - which of necessity includes whatever infection she may have acquire previously, whether or not she realises acquiring it (and it is more than likely she would not realise having acquired any infection, because that is the very nature of STDs).
If you believe you know her sexual history in sufficient detail, and are prepared to accept it (and accept how accurately you have or have not determined it from her explanation and other sources), then what happens, happens. But unless you really fancy fatherhood at this point, you would be foolish not to use a condom at the very least (and that modifies some of the comments about the foreskin, lubrication - you will need to use some artificial lubricant as well - and such).
> FYI, I started stretching recently.
Good show!