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Written by Paul B. at 21 Jul 2002 23:52:09: Blaze of glory
As an answer to: 10 second wonder written by Jake Booth at 21 Jul 2002 19:35:49:
> Can I just ask...now that I'm nearly fully cured, if I was to have sexual intercourse would I only last 10 seconds?
Perhaps - but:
If you was to have intercourse, choose a young lady who is so excited by the anticipation of doing that with you, that she is literally dripping her vaginal lubricant when you do it; in which case she will be so smooth inside, she will feel almost like the inside of your foreskin to which your glans is so used at present (but with more ripples).
However, there is a trap. Unless you are conclusively sure that she has never had another partner before you, (and as I gather you have not yourself, that may be OK, otherwise the same thing would automatically apply anyway,) then you are impelled to use a condom, which makes it a "whole different ball game". However, even with a condom, the "pre-cum" which you will produce when with a young lady (far more so than when you masturbate), will make the inside very slippery.
> I think so because the head is so sensitive that I will cum at the slightest thing...this is not good!
The sensitivity is very good. The tendency to ejaculate too quickly is more a product of youth and excitement, common to all (well, nearly,) guys your age regardless. Jim's approach is excellent in this regard, though it may mean having more than one (or two) condom(s), but it cannot be stressed enough that real intercourse (as opposed to what absurdities you may presume if for example, you have been so terribly unfortunate as to have been exposed to pornography) is all about slow, gentle and gradual penetration, savouring the experiences, understanding that the penetration itself is not the most pleasurable part for the young lady, and that she will be far more delighted by other caresses at the same time.
And you certainly must consider contraception - how you are going to guarantee she does not get pregnant - unless you are actually in a position to want to be a father (I suspect not!). A condom may be part (not the whole) of such a guarantee, but one thing is certain, you cannot rely on "withdrawal" in this respect.