[ ARC forum 2 ]
Written by Rood at 27 Jul 2002 05:42:11: To Mark, and Jeff, too:
As an answer to: ouch! written by Mark at 21 Jul 2002 19:31:50:
Mark, and Jeff, I know how frustrating it is to have a seemingly insurmountable problem, but consider this: It wasn't too many years ago that you wouldn't have had any help at all, except from some dorky Doctor wielding a sharp knife with the intention of cutting off your problem forthwith. That this is no Gordian knot we are dealing with never seems to have entered their minds. If something Jim or Paul or anyone else suggests doesn't work...well, there is more than one way to skin a cat. You are both intelligent guys...use your imagination. Try using a lubricant to sooth the process...use a liquid...play with your penis...get it accustomed to being used. Investigate it...spend time examining it, physically.
If you have ever lifted weights...you know that the day after the first good workout your muscles were quite sore. Hike down into the Grand Canyon and back up and your legs may hurt. Indeed, you may not be able to walk normally for a few days. This only means that you need more and regular exercise, not that you should give up weight lifting or walking. So treat your foreskin and your penis the same way. Weight lifters always say, no pain, no gain. Go at it a little at a time and you will be right before you realize it.
>I tried pulling the foreskin a little,it hurt like crap so I s'pose i'll drop the whole idea. I guess the only diff between me and a normal penis guy is better feeling during sex and shorter time for orgasm huh?