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Re: Warning Bulldog...

Written by AJ at 27 Jul 2002 15:32:29:

As an answer to: Re: Warning Bulldog... written by Rood at 27 Jul 2002 08:01:23:

>No, AJ, to my knowledge you have never ever explained how you attempted to stretch, by what device or devices, over what period of time, or with what results.

I believe I covered that with you at fathermag some time ago.

>We have only been able to read between the lines and speculate.

Imagination and speculation is the anti-circ communities stock-in-trade.

>If you would be so kind as to explain in detail your experience, it would help those young and not so young men by detailing what not to do. A blanket condemnation is insufficient, seeing how many successes at stretching have been demonstrated here and elsewhere.

Again, check back at fathermag for specific details. When I first started posting at fathermag you yourself asked a host of questions to which I gave detailed response - even though some of the question were presumptious, leading, and sometimes speculative, I cut you the slack and answered them.

>As for the name thing...well, AJ, I have given you access to my "real" name, address and phone number in what seems to have been a futile attempt to open up a discussion about our differences and similarities in a private forum.

I don't want to call you a liar, Korydon, but at no stage do I recall you inviting me for private discussion nor do I recall you giving me your address and telephone number.


>You would have it only public, it seems, with results that one could predict. There is still the possibility of private discourse. You have only to ask.

Unlike your peers, you are steadfast and open enough in your convictions to leave an e-mail address with your posts. Just like I do. I have stated invited many times that if ANYONE from the anti-circ community wants to contact me, they should do so. As ever I leave the decision for you to contact me by e-mail in your hands.

> There is no reason why two mature men cannot explain themselves to one another.

Exactly. I have spent many hours answering questions from the anti-circ community in regard to my history and experience with these condition and getting partially circumcised. However, the majority of your peers are not so forthcoming in giving their info. Funny that.

>I've put out my hand before. I do it again. Take it. You might be surprised. I have a firm and warm grip. Rood

Again, at fathermag, I was polite enough to answer your questions, but then you went and burnt any possible bridge by prematurely jumping into a spiral of imagination and speculation and bizarre suggestions as to my motivations. If you want to talk, that's fine. Let's talk. Just don't make giant leaps as before. Leaps that you see as logical just because something or someone does not seemingly fit into your frame or comprehension are not conductive.

Anyway, here's hoping that perhaps you and I can work through these past differences and get toward a better understanding. I won't answer any post from you here, because of the undoubted interventions from the more hysterical of the anti-circ community (the "AJ is mentally ill trolls" - Jim, Aussie Girl, 28/F, Phillip etc).


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