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Written by Ralesk at 06 Sep 2002 02:54:35: Re: Another 16-YO w Phimosis
As an answer to: Another 16-YO w Phimosis written by Charles II at 06 Sep 2002 02:35:37:
>First, you have to ignore the idiots that don't even have foreskins, some of which don't even have penises at all, that tell you to smile and be happy and pretend nothing is wrong.
Which *neither* of us does. No-one here tells he is perfectly okay. You shouldn't have said this on the first line...
> You know something is, and so does your doctor.
Though his doctor has just about as much foreskin as how deep his vagina is.
>Stretching takes routine effort, and is not an instant fix all.
Correct. It's routine, and that's why it's very easy to fit into your everydays.
> For some, it is only a temporary fix at best, and can be a life long problem.
Those who stretch out and then never use their foreskins again, it is a temporary solution.
> Circumcision, on the other hand, is a one time and permanent fix.
True, but it's not fixing of the problem, but rather throwing the problem away.
> It is -rarely- the doom and gloom that hysterical anti-circ people tell you too.
In most cases, when it's done to neonatals, they don't have the ability to compare, which is why the above is true for oh so many of them and also:
> Most guys are happy with it,
Had they been able to compare the two, they might not been happy with it.
> and wish they had done it sooner.
Your brainwashed 12 year old victims, yea. Now there is one thing I like that 13-years-of-age thing about the internet, and that thing is YOU.
> But its for -you- to decide, so if you want to try the stretching first, why not? You will find other guys just like yourself here, with the same problem, and the results they got from trying different things.
Exactly. If he is indeed not fond of the results (which I heavily doubt, but okay, it can happen), and he grows up AND he knows what a circumcision is about physiologically, THEN he can go and do whatever he wants. I just wish him a pleasant life and hope he won't be disappointed.
> But don't wait any longer and let your whole sex life and health be ruined.
Oh, boo boo I'm so sad. Tell you something? Life is not about getting laid at 14 years of age. I don't like your sexist propaganda.
> If you don't get complete satisfaction in about a couple of weeks at the most, you can still go for the cut.
We all know it's not an instant fix, even you said so. Not an instant fix, as in NOT A WEEK OR TWO. We have been able to read in other people's posts that it took about a month or 1.5 months from total phimosis to an quite much okay penis.
> Good luck.
Yea, "teen", good luck in reading between the lines of our local propaganda folks and fetishists.