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Both Foreskin and sex

Written by Paul B. at 11 Sep 2002 11:02:25:

As an answer to: Foreskin and sex written by marto at 11 Sep 2002 04:40:48:

> 1) If I were to have sex, as is, and without a condom, how far does my foreskin go back and forth. Does it go as far back as I can force it with my hand, assuming she is properly lubricated?

The whole purpose of lubrication, is to force nothing. If your partner is lubricated, there is little movement of your foreskin if it is so tight, and if she is not, it hurts her.

> 2) Can I still make babies as a little part of my pee hole is still covered on erection? I have no problem masturbating.

Or peeing. Well, that tells you the answer, doesn't it?

> I have read several posts here and you advice stretching. Please answer my questions if I have sex, as is.

If you have sex "as is", I fancy you will enjoy it. Particularly with a partner who has either not had children, or has done so but chosen to look after herself and keep her vaginal muscles tight, the major stimulus to the glans is not rubbing, that is, friction, but the "rippling" of the (vaginal) muscles and ridges over the penis, which movement the foreskin will transmit quite well - just as it already does when you masturbate. And being concealed, your glans is at maximum sensitivity.

There will however be some reduction in the feeling due to the foreskin remaining over the glans, which would be more noticeable with the more subtle(!) massage from a looser vagina, as many women have following childbirth. So, it is desirable by stretching, to "convert" your non-retracting foreskin, to the fully-sliding variety. That it will still be mostly covered, will keep the glans almost as sensitive as ever.

Now, your description implies that there may be "adhesions" sticking the foreskin to the glans, as you should be able to move the opening all over the glans and inspect the various parts. To demonstrate this, "balloon" your foreskin by holding the end tight and inflating it with pee. It should be quite separate from the glans all around except for the very underneath.

If it is not, or if the attachment at the underneath appears to be particularly tight, the additional exercise you need to perform is to pull your foreskin forward away from the glans, so as to pull the adhesions free. If they part, you may get some irritation and stinging particularly when you pee, for a while, but that would demonstrate that an adhesion has parted. You just might tear your fraenulum, but you are pretty unlikely to tear intact skin simply by pulling on it.


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